From the authors of “The Happy Hooker’s Guide to Sex: 69 Orgasmic Ways to Pleasure your Woman”, an outstanding short book for men with the best of the best advice from Xaviera’s 32 years as Penthouse advisor, comes Katje’s database of delectable sexual tidbits.

From an October 2007 interview with Robert Sherwood:

“Women are much more complex than men, he needs to understand that complexity to be a great lover.  You can take all the sex tips in the world, unless he can read her and apply properly to her moods, he’s going to miss the mark.  She may need to be taken one night and another time she wants a very smooth soft - and if you are not playing fantasy with her vivid imagination, if you aren’t going to play with her, she is going to get it somewhere else.”

From the Kama Sutra:

“Men who are well acquainted with the art of love are well aware how often one woman differs from another in her sighs and sounds during the time of congress. Some women like to be talked to in the most loving way, others in the most lustful way, others in the most abusive way, and so on. Some women enjoy themselves with closed eyes in silence, others make a great noise over it, and some almost faint away. The great art is to ascertain what gives them the greatest pleasure, and what specialities they like best.”

Xaviera Hollander, in a 2003 Anniversary Issue of Penthouse Magazine:

“Once I was interviewed on a TV show with Tom Snyder, who asked me what I liked to do best with a new lover.  I replied, ‘It’s a four-letter word that ends in ‘K’ and it means intercourse, and I like to do it all night and a lot of the rest of the time.’  Tom said ‘Oh, I’ve got my hand ready on the bleeper button’, grinning at me.  ‘It’s the big one, isn’t it?’ he added.   ‘It’s big with me’ I replied.  “The word is ‘talk’.”

Xaviera Hollander, January 1999, Penthouse Magazine:

“To many of us sex addicts, giving sexual satisfaction to one’s partner is not only essential, it is also a tremendous turn-on.”